When you are alone it makes you think and appreciate the times when you are not alone. So often we take for granted our friends work mates and family. We should all accept that people and the interaction we have with them generally enrich our life experiences. There may be exception but these are generally minimal rather than excessive. If we were ship wrecked and alone on an island it would then require one to muster every bit of your imagination your past memories and creative skill to cope with being alone. Hope that none of us ever have to face this. I know people have and survived but there must have been some deep emotional scars and issues that needed to be resolved.
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Alone
@ 2008-03-29 – 22:21:22
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The waiting continues
@ 2008-03-28 – 12:43:39
Well the idea of including a third party in the equation has to some extent assisted. Have received an email via the third party that now indicates that there should be sone indication of the state of the current situation on Monday... It seems that sometimes we are too close to the issues and that an independent person has an advantage in this situation. Feel just a little encouraged by the letter receive but this is in a reserved and guarded way... At least there is a date now----- will this be a resolution or yet another delay?
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Waiting
@ 2008-03-28 – 09:45:22
How much of our life do we spend waiting? No mattter how well organised we are if the other party we are interacing with does not do their bit then all we can do is wait. You may say "no" push the other party. Of course but you can only do this with in the bounds of common practise. In the mean time you wait.... Perhaps a partial solution might be to bring in a third party who will assist you... The third party can also interact with the first party who may then become movitated to interact with you however this pre-supposes that you are not left waiting for the third party. Confused ... I am...
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Now
@ 2008-03-19 – 13:30:21
What is now? Just an instant ..... the past now has already gone and is no longer now but is past. The future now is not here yet here and can not be now because it has not yet happened.
Time is something we all have to live with our past our present and our future. The present is the now and the past is the previous now and the future the future now.. -
Reports
@ 2008-03-17 – 13:36:52
Went to check out a data base this morning and it simply did not work as well as it should. Will have to get it fixed. It has been a quiet day have not felt that good but have worked on regardless.
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What is going on?
@ 2008-03-15 – 21:17:26
Every day there seems to be talk of recession and a down turn in the economy. However every where there are people spending up large. I don't think I have ever seen so many people in eating out estabishment and not just the budget take away type places. There also always seems to be plenty of new cars and althought house sales have slowed there are still sale and still plenty of new homes being built. Is this what happens before a financial down turn? It seems like animals in the wild all rushing the the water hole before it dries up.
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More Delay
@ 2008-03-14 – 22:29:58
Have heard today that the reply to the letter that was sent on the 27 February will be up to two weeks away. This seems an inordinate amount of time to wait. I guess there is nothing else I can do but wait.
There seems to be a delay..... delay..... tactic being used and I can not see any other way around it or any way to counter it. Will just have to accept it and wait... -
What does the future hold?
@ 2008-03-13 – 09:56:58
It seems that it is often a blessing that we don't know whats a head of us. We need the challenge and I guess that this is what stimulates us and lets us work through the rough and tough times. If everything went swimmingly We would never know when we were having a great time because we would have nothing to compare our experiences to. Hope the letter arrives today....
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Still no letter
@ 2008-03-12 – 21:48:40
Have received no letter today. Will email tonight and see if I can spark up some thing. It's not a fair go that things are aloud to drag on like this. Just because the powers that be do not want to make a decision. They are all paid to make decisions and seem that they do everything that they can to avoid doing so.
Perhaps some of these people will be in the same position we are in, at some time in the future---- I would however not wish it on them...... -
Time marches on
@ 2008-03-11 – 10:32:46
They say time marches on but I find it sometime runs on at full speed. On odd occasions it also drags its feet. Well I guess when you are waiting for someting time seems to drag and when you are having a ball it races away. Not much new in that everybody knows that don't they.
Waiting for a reply to letters sent on the 27th/28th Feb and it seems like an age ago. There was so much anticipation and it all came to naught to date. There seems to be nothing that can be done to speed the process. Just have to wait...... It is the 11 March 2008 /// How long does it take to write a letter? -
Weather Great
@ 2008-03-08 – 12:57:10
The weather is great the lawns are done. I can relax perhaps... but no plenty of other stuff to be done. Better get going and get some of it done.....
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One Hundred and Fifty dollars
@ 2008-03-08 – 12:27:38
Well had to buy a new tail light as there wer no seconds available. Have the tail light all fixed now and feel a lot happier now. Got la.wns mowed and that is out of the way for a while. No mail or email for as yet. I hope will will hear soon as I don't know how much more I can manage to take....!!!!
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Broke Tail Light
@ 2008-03-07 – 13:26:46
This morning I broke the tail light in my sisters car have felt bad all day. Must go now and see if I can find a new one or a good second. Will need to fix it as the water will get in. Still heard nothing re -...... the mediation metting and the letters that were sent.,.,.
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Still no information to hand
@ 2008-03-06 – 09:44:43
Waiting to hear from the parties that were written to. Letters should have been received yesterday. I hope that a reply will be seen as urgent and imperitive. We certainly tried to make that point in the recent mediation.
Weather has cooled down a lot. It seems that the great summer has gone and autumn is here and has come very suddenly. -
Well it is the 5th March 2008
@ 2008-03-05 – 10:13:00
The letters sent from the mediation meeting should be received today. I hope that the person concerned will find a little bit of compassion and reply asap. Need to work very hard today. Still a lot to do and it is hard to stay motivated the way things have gone.
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Waiting .................
@ 2008-03-04 – 10:19:19
It is hard to wait. There is no way to speed up time. I have tried distracting myself with lots of work and alternate activities but this does not stop the mind harking back.
It seems that a few days is like forever
I guess I will just have to get stuck into work and try to concentrate on that and let things take their course. Which is what happens in so much of life. Look at the positive look at all the things I have to be thankful for and enjoy the life I have. -
Temperatures down and some Rain
@ 2008-03-03 – 10:23:04
Well the temperatures are down and there has been some rain. This will asist the farmers and the growers. It seems that our summer has almost gone over night.
It is all very frustrating at the moment. We are still no where and have to continue to wait. Mum is still not home and puzzeled and more than a little frustrated. We are aware but feel our hands are tied to a large degree. It has cost us in every way and no doubt will continue to do so.